Friday, October 2, 2009

Maryse's Purple-ish 60th Birthday


Who'd have thunk it? Here we are, up to the eyeballs in so much intensity, and the birthdays keep coming, Yea! Sixty is a fine birthday to celebrate as we hit our stride, cancer and all. I am going to get old with this woman (though not too old too soon, if you know what I mean) that was my committment, and I mean to hold her to it. so if you wish to read and view further, there follows a poem, a video and the lyrics to a video. Yes?

Click HERE for my birthday card to my beloved bald woman
Marryse loves this poem:   'When I am an old woman, I shall wear purple'

When I am an old woman, I shall wear purple
with a red hat that doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
and satin candles, and say we've no money for butter.
I shall sit down on the pavement when I am tired
and gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
and run my stick along the public railings
and make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
and pick the flowers in other people's gardens
and learn to spit.

You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat
and eat three pounds of sausages at a go
or only bread and pickles for a week
and hoard pens and pencils and beer nuts and things in boxes.

But now we must have clothes that keep us dry
and pay our rent and not swear in the street
and set a good example for the children.
We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.
But maybe I ought to practice a little now?
So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.
  - Penny Joseph -


And the video soundtrack is from Gogol Bordello's song, 'Start Wearing Purple'
Start wearing purple wearing purple
Start wearing purple for me now
All your sanity and wits they will all vanish
I promise, it's just a matter of time...

So yeah, ha

Start wearing purple wearing purple (he)
Start wearing purple for me now
All your sanity and wits they will all vanish
I promise, it's just a matter of time...

I know you since you where at twenty, and I was twenty,
but thought that some years from now
a purple little little lady would be perfect
for dirty old and useless clown...

So yeah, ha

Start wearing purple wearing purple
Start wearing purple for me now
All your sanity and wits they will all vanish
I promise, it's just a matter of time...

So yeah, I know it all from Diogenes to the Foucault (these are philosophers!!)
from Lozgechkin to Passepartout
I ja kljanus obossav dva paltza - chto ty!
shto muzyka poshla ot "zvukov moo"

Start wearing purple wearing purple (da da da da da)
Start wearing purple for me now

Start wearing purple for me now!

All your sanity and wits they will all vanish
I promise, it's just a matter of time...

So Vio-Vio-Violetta! Etta! Va-va-va-vaja dama ti moja!
Eh podayte nam karetu, vot etu, i mi poedem k ebenjam!

So yeah, ah start wearing purple wearing purple
Start wearing purple for me now
All your sanity and wits, they will all vanish
I promise, it's just a matter of time!...

10 comments:

  1. yeah, 60 is good, I remember it well!
    We celebrate with you both this extra special purple day.
    Piles of purple passion to you from Ray and me
    xxx

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  2. My favourite poem too ... and I'd never heard the song ...

    Have a wonderful day together and with friends ... enjoy the freedom which comes with all the changes life brings .. growing older, having cancer, .. so much that seemed to matter fades, and new/old things take on more meaning.

    I hope you get a red hat to go with those red boots!!! much love

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  3. Happy Birthday Maryse!

    Good to see Steve's video and celebrate your togetherness after all those ... fashion crimes! How rich ... your life! And how tolerant of you to put up with Steve's schizophrenic mustache manias over the years :-)

    Love you

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  4. Dearest Maryse
    Happy Birthday..... and many more, may today be a happy day filled with love, family and friendship and may the year ahead be a great one for you and your family with all good treatments and great progress, lotsa love Cherie, Milo, Jodi and Megan xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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  5. Dear Maryse,
    Great poem and video.....! A wonderful pictorial history of your romance and all the purple in your life. Wishing you a special day and year!
    Love
    Claudia & Irv

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  6. Dearest Maryse and Steve
    My role models for how to be 60 (next month)! Not a day goes by without a thought and a big long distance hug for you both from me, so in awe of your joy and creativity around this chapter of your lives. I read the blog with smiles and an occasional tear and gratefulness for all that you are sharing.
    Best love and big birthday wishes from Maurice and me
    Sue

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  7. Dearest Maryse,
    my wise,loving and coach and guide: Warm wishes for your special day, all more love and hugs coming your way from my part of the world.
    May your cake be huge and full of chocolate!!
    Maria

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  8. The good thing about jet-lag is you get to watch really interesting middle of night programms! Like this one, aired at 3am London time this morning, that i thought i would share with you - Entitled "Fearless" Try to see it if you can, amazing and inspiring. About the life of Margaret Moth.
    I know you would love it Maryse.

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  9. Deon van Zyl said
    I loooooved the B'day "card" - a true labour of love.
    Blessings to both of you.

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  10. Deon asked;
    Do you know this poem by Erich Fried?

    What it is – Erich Fried

    It is nonsense
    says reason
    It is what it is
    says love

    It is misfortune
    says calculation
    It is nothing but pain
    says fear
    It is hopeless
    says insight
    It is what it is
    says love

    It is ridiculous
    says pride
    It is careless
    says caution
    It is impossible
    says experience
    It is what it is
    says love

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